oh yes, i'm going here. and i'm going here now because tray has me and becky all riled up from her post on the message board. i try to put boyfriend's pending bachelor party out of my head (pending = it's happening at some point before we get hitched). i hate talking about it. i hate thinking about it. i hate the whole stupid concept of it. can someone please tell me why all bachelor parties have to include strippers? i mean, seriously? aren't we old enough that we don't need to do this? why can't guys just do something normal, like hang out? go fishing. go offroading. go camping and drink beer all weekend. why do they have to do stripper things? you know why? because the OTHER guys want to do the stripper things. all the single & unhappy guys think the fucking bachelor party is for them. it's a time where they can do rank things to a girl they don't know and never have to see again.. and it's all "okay." but who do they take down that rank ass road with them? the groom to be. and they all think it's funny.
well i don't. it makes me sick to my stomach. boyfriend's brother wants to have a whole fucking bachelor party weekend. where, you ask? in vegas of course. how lovely. how respectful towards me. how kind. and what will i be doing all weekend while he's pissing me off? feeling nauseous i'm sure.
i just don't get it. i mean, most girls i know (especially at this age. yeah, i'm old) have no desire to do that kind of crap. hell, i feel like my whole life until i met boyfriend has been a bachelorette party. i wouldn't feel like i missed out if i didn't have one. but if i do, i know it would be something that didn't include male strippers. it would be more girly. i might be tipping someone, but it would be because they painted my toes pretty, not because they shoved their tits in my face.
i just don't understand why bachelor parties seem to give guys a reason to do things they would never, ever do on any other normal day. why does the fact that it's a bachelor party, all of sudden make things that aren't normally okay, okay?
how do you feel about bachelor parties? did your husband have one? is your fiance going to have one? should i just tie boyfriend up in the basement and lock him there until our wedding day?